The Most Surprising Things People Have Told Me - Insights and Lessons
Life is full of unexpected turns and encounters, and the statements people make can truly surprise us. Over the years, I've encountered whispers of wisdom that have profoundly impacted my life, often in the most unlikely settings. Some of these statements have been simple yet profound, while others have left me speechless. In this article, I'll share some of the most surprising things people have told me, offering both reflections and practical wisdom.
A Stranger's Encouragement - Born to Create History
During a literary meetup, I met a stranger who read my poems and expressed an intriguing thought: “I am born to create history. I am dangerous to this world.” This statement was both shocking and exhilarating. It resonated with my sense of purpose and reminded me that every voice, however small, can have an impact. Whenever I feel lost or doubtful, I reflect on this encounter and I am reminded of my potential to make a difference. It is a constant source of motivation that helps me push through challenges.
Marriage and Cultural Perceptions - Beyond Stereotypes
A year ago, while discussing potential marriage prospects, a fiancé-to-be casually mentioned, “If we were to marry, you could have a fabulous life in the Western world.” At that time, my family is of mixed heritage, with my mother being German and my father Chilean, and I was born in Budapest. I currently live in Berlin as a citizen. Despite the invitation, I decided to stay true to myself. For him to suggest that I needed a better life elsewhere, and insinuate that I was somehow lacking or undesirable was more than just puzzling. In his view, I was seen as “a Latina from Latin America,” which is far from the truth. My identity is a blend of diverse heritages, and I am equally proud of all of them.
Social Humility of a World-Famous Athlete - Wealth and Philanthropy
When discussing the earnings of 27-year-old Sadio Mane, a world-renowned footballer, who reportedly earns $276,000 per week, an unexpected detail caught my attention. Despite his wealth, he was often seen using a broken phone. When questioned about this, he replied, "I will get it fixed." When asked why he didn't buy a new phone, he responded, "I can buy thousands of such phones, I can buy 10 Ferraris, 2 jet planes, diamond watches, but why do I want all this? I have seen poverty, I couldn't even complete my education because of it. I have made schools so that people can study. I had no shoes, I used to play without them. There was no good clothes, no food to eat. Today, I have got so much, so instead of doing show off, I want to share it with my people." Sadio Mane's words offer a powerful reminder about the importance of humility and using one's fortune to uplift the less fortunate. His story serves as an inspiring lesson for many individuals, including myself, to reflect on our own values and the ways in which we can contribute positively to society.
A Deep Reflection - Is the Brain Really Named Itself?
A few years ago, during a conversation with my brother, he uttered a simple yet profound statement: “Isn’t it insane that the brain named itself?” It was a line, but it left me stunned. To this day, every time I think about it, I find myself reflecting on the complexities of life, the universe, and our technological advancements. The brain, which is capable of such incredible feats, is also responsible for its own naming, which seems like a paradox. This reflection prompted me to question not only the nature of consciousness but also our role in understanding the universe and ourselves. Such a statement acts as a constant reminder of the vastness and mystery of existence, encouraging me to approach life with an open and inquisitive mind.