Overcoming Isolation and Finding Safety: Tips for a Secure Living

Ambient feelings of being trapped, or living in a dangerous environment, can often stem from a lack of awareness or understanding of our true nature. In many cases, the deep truths of existence, consciousness, and bliss can offer immense comfort and security. These are powerful principles rooted in ancient wisdom, and the practice of meditation can deeply nourish the soul, providing a sense of inner peace and safety.

Understanding Your True Nature

You are not just the sum of your circumstances. You are a Brahman, the underlying reality from which all of existence derives. Existence-Consciousness-Bliss (Ex-C-B) is the sole source and support of all transient phenomena, including life, gods, earth, nature, and the universe. By engaging in meditative practices as taught by sages and saints, you can experience this profound reality, leading to a more secure and fulfilling life.

Physical and Emotional Security

While the spiritual approach is important, creating a sense of physical and emotional safety is crucial. Sometimes, simply having a place to go, even temporarily, can make a significant difference. Here are some strategies that might help:

Couch Surfing: Utilize platforms like Couchsurfing to find temporary housing. This can provide a safe space to stay, even if only for a short period. House/Pet Sitting: These opportunities can offer a temporary place to live and, in many cases, provide meals and other support. Your pet can also serve as a protective presence. Befriend Neighbors and Religious Leaders: Developing positive relationships with your neighbors, local clergy, or community members can provide a support network and possibly a place to go. Volunteering: Engage in volunteer work in charitable organizations and local churches. This can not only provide a sense of purpose but also create connections with others who can offer support. Financial Preparedness: Start saving money. If you are a minor, talk to a teacher or counselor privately about your situation. If you are over 18, find a job and save as much as you can in a private account. Keep your plans confidential until you are ready to take action. Preparing for Departure: Keep important documents, IDs, and other life-critical items in a zip-lock bag. This ensures they are protected and easily accessible when you decide to leave. Psychological Resilience: Maintain a sense of normalcy in your life. Act like nothing has changed and keep things as they are. Small changes can make a big difference and help you regain a sense of control.

Case Studies for Inspiration

Personal stories can provide inspiration and practical insights:

Case Study 1: A Sixty-Pound Protector

Even if you are not legally allowed to own a firearm, like the author who was prohibited due to a past conviction, adopting a protective pet can still offer a sense of security. The author chose a pit mix puppy, which, despite being initially non-aggressive, has grown to a substantial size (60 lbs). One night, the dog suddenly grewlled and alerting the author to someone attempting to enter their home. This natural reaction from the puppy proved effective, deterring an intruder.

Case Study 2: A Guardian’s Plan

The author also rented a room to a couple, known to them, where the male roommate was sufficiently large to deter potential home invaders. By renting the room, the author gained not only a tenant but also an additional layer of security for their home.

Case Study 3: The Power of Community

A determined individual decided to turn to community resources for help. They discussed their situation privately with a counselor and, once over the age of 18, found a job and began saving in a private account. They took careful steps to ensure their plans were kept confidential. When the time came, they relocated to a new area where their previous life was a secret.

These stories, though diverse, share a common thread: the importance of being proactive, using available resources, and maintaining a focus on safety and security.

Conclusion

Feeling trapped and unsafe is a complex issue that can be alleviated through various means. From adopting a protective pet to building a support network and securing a new place to live, there are multiple paths to security. Remember, understanding your true nature and the principles of Brahman can provide profound comfort, while practical steps can create a secure and stable life. If you ever find yourself in a position where you feel unsafe, consider these strategies and take the necessary steps to ensure your safety.